the fourth space: a space that celebrates connections & longevity
sharing the dream of living near friends and co-creating mundane rituals together
Life as a 20-30 something —hosting dinner parties, walking around the lakes with a thermos of coffee, playing intimacy card decks, and hosting women’s circles. I craved spontaneous plans, thrived on open doors, and believed that relationships grow stronger in the small, mundane rituals of everyday life. Between stolen moments of quick intimacy, a yearning grew. Then it bloomed into a vision, a wish for the fourth space.
The fourth space isn’t defined by algorithms or trends. It’s not about chasing the new brunch spot, or playing padel with a dull match of strangers. It’s woven into the fabric of daily life. It’s in the joy of walking to a friend’s house, putting together a patchwork of leftovers for a potluck party, or working on an art project on a weeknight. The warmth of relationships are built not on fleeting encounters but on shared history. It’s about having the autonomy to co-create the constellation of relationships we can only dream of—grounded in the places we call home, shaped by the people we choose to invest in, day after day.
This isn’t about speed-dating through connections, treating people like disposable experiences. It’s about craving depth over breadth, rootedness over novelty. It’s the slow burn of friendships that deepen with time, the richness that comes from growing alongside the same people, witnessing their joys, their struggles, their growth. The kind of kinship you won’t find in curated events—it's built in the everyday, in the quiet, in the consistent presence of people who show up.
The fourth space is born from the desire to live fully, to find meaning in the in-between moments, to create spaces where vulnerability feels safe and belonging isn’t earned but embraced. It’s a quiet network of people who see the world not as a collection of individuals but as a tapestry of relationships.
So, we wish —
To believe in the power of open doors and open hearts. To cherish the beauty of living near friends, of building relationships that deepen over time, and of investing in the people around us. To understand that community isn’t built overnight—it’s nurtured in daily rituals, in showing up, in being present. To find strength in interdependence, courage in authenticity, and joy in togetherness.
If this feels like the kind of life you’ve been searching for, you’re not alone. The fourth space is already here, quietly growing 🦋
The fourth space is for eccentric Danes and internationals in Copenhagen seeking for kinship—people who want to grow roots, build lasting connections, and embrace the joy of living near friends in our lovely home city.
We host secret, candlelit gatherings where connection unfolds naturally:
Campfire Story Circles: Share personal stories in intimate, cozy settings.
Chai and Massage: Gentle, grounding cosy time with warm drinks and nurturing touch.
Living Room Salons: Thought-provoking conversations sparked by questions, readings, or reflections.
Intimacy Deck Nights: Deepen connections through playful, authentic dialogue.
Join the waiting list to be part of these gatherings—spaces where belonging grows, friendships deepen, and the fourth space comes alive.